Respect is an overall evaluation you give someone based on many factors – what that person is doing with their life, how they treat you and others, whether they are honest or not and if they seem to consistently do good things, large or small, for other people.
This is true of self-respect as well as respect for others.
Before granting the highest level of self-respect or respect for others, make sure the person is worthy of the honor.
If you haven’t done so already, start working on each and every one of them. And, as always, if you need help with any of them, turn to a valued listener for help.
Just like with yourself, when you demonstrate respect for others, you give value to their being and ideals.